Male fidelity - myth or reality?

Every woman wants to believe that there is a faithful and caring companion next to her. But such men are a real rarity these days.

Early Marriage

One of the reasons for cheating is early marriage. Not all couples find common ground at a young age, but some of them begin to live together and faithfully live with each other for many years. Early marriages happen for the following reasons:

• Avoiding parental care;
• Unplanned pregnancy;
• Passion, getting pleasure;
• Suppressing the feeling of loneliness.

These reasons are on the surface. Many girls have a deep-seated attitude that they need to get married early. This concept is instilled in little girls by their mothers and grandmothers, so many believe that at 25 or 30 years old it is too late to get married. This is why early marriages happen.

A common reason for the breakdown of such a union is betrayal. Having married in their youth, after a short time people realize that they are completely different people and their family life together is different from the honeymoon period. Pitfalls and everyday problems lead to a feeling of dissatisfaction. They try to drown it out on the side.

After several years of marriage, the initial love develops into a deeper feeling - affection, empathy and support. In the second case, spouses become disappointed in each other and try to find new feelings, emotions and impressions on the side.

Those who do not cheat

The most common reason for divorce is adultery, in most cases on the part of the husband. But all representatives of the stronger sex cheat, many prefer fidelity in relationships.

What makes them like that? Here are the most common answers:

• Cheating is an expensive pleasure. Courtship requires a lot of strength and money. Taking care of your own family and satisfying the demands of your mistress is not affordable for every average Russian;
• An affair on the side is stress. Having a mistress means living in constant fear that the lie will sooner or later be revealed;
• Cheating humiliates male dignity. If you have stopped loving your wife, why humiliate yourself, break up immediately;
• My wife loves me with all my shortcomings, but for my mistress I am another short-lived romance;
• This is my choice. I chose my wife myself and will be faithful to her until the end;
• My wife is my mistress. Many men are embarrassed to talk to their spouses about fantasies, so they look for pleasure on the side.

The role of a woman in a relationship

Men are polygamous by nature and you can't argue with that. Every man pays attention to beautiful, feminine and sexy girls, and if his companion is boring or annoying, then cheating is not far away. Therefore, even after the wedding, every girl should take care of herself.

Many ladies make the situation worse by suspecting their gentleman of mortal sins, making scandals out of the blue and provoking quarrels. Such behavior pushes the unfaithful man to leave for his mistress – more reserved, tactful, reasonable and gentle girl.

The wife determines the behavior of her husband, since great female power lies in wisdom and devotion.

The intelligence of a man

Polygamy is a popular phenomenon. But as scientists from London have found out, fidelity is determined by the level of intellectual development of a man. Although it was previously believed that a man's wanderings "to the left" are due to his insufficient sexual satisfaction or the "bad" behavior of his wife.

British experts have found that men with a high level of intellectual development consider monogamy to be the ideal model of sexual behavior. It relieves them of stress in search of a new companion, relieves overexertion and helps to maintain a healthy state of the body.

Scientists have also found that the commitment of many men to a certain model of behavior - monogamy or polygamy - is formed from an early age. The relationship between his parents he saw as a young man, he will repeat in his family life.

If his father often cheated on his wife, then having grown up, such a boy is unlikely to follow the principles of monogamy. If love and mutual support reigned in the marital relations of mom and dad, then in the future their son will transfer their example to his life.

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